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Post by Chips Longhorn on Jul 28, 2021 19:09:54 GMT 1
Sorry but the description of people who objected to this as "lunatics" says it all . People whose first thought were it was some kind of invitation to violence? Yes, lunatics. Well it wasn't an "invitation ' but it was stupid bearing in mind the ill will that the guy in question was receiving. And the ones pointing that out werent the lunatics |
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Post by Wingman on Jul 28, 2021 23:12:28 GMT 1
Do you regret doing what you did? A basic yes or no please. Yes, of course...which is why I deleted the link to the public info at the earliest opportunity I had once I'd seen some of the reaction and reflected on that. I *honestly* hadn't thought of the full potential consequences before reading some of the follow-up, the link I shared was for a genuine reason as I've stated, to close down the spat that Otium was having with BDG...given I don't think Otium understands what his legal position he was trying to suggest with BDG is (I did actually flag up that BDG would instantly get any action dismissed with the 'honest opinion' statutory defence, given Otiums posting history). Some of the lunatics out there who reacted reminded me there are lunatics out there, and it wasn't fair to potentially expose BDG to them, even though the info was a 5 second click away given his real name is in his sig and he's published links to Gag N Bone Man stuff - so any actual lunatics don't need me to do their searching for them. Given less than 20 people had actually seen my post, I figured it'd be reet - although its a shame a couple of people kept quoting it to extend the time it was available. Thankfully El Mel followed up with the tidying up. But - none of that is relevant, as BDG posted (gone now?), there was a request to draw a line under things, and I for one have no intention of fanning any flames or antagonising things more than I inadvertently did do! Similarly, I don't see it as an us and them, I'll continue to post here following the rules (as I always have done, I've never received a yellow card), just as I'll continue to post at the other place whilst it remains interesting (and hopefully both places will start to pick up once the football is underway), along with a couple of other places I go for my Town gossip. So, in short. Yes 🤷♂️ Just my take but I’d always say an apology is something of note. The original action shouldn’t have happened but you’re man enough to admit that. Hopefully BDG can accept the stance you regret it also. I think it was made worse by the flames being fanned afterwards too. |
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Post by Gag N Bone Man on Jul 29, 2021 9:28:50 GMT 1
Yes, of course...which is why I deleted the link to the public info at the earliest opportunity I had once I'd seen some of the reaction and reflected on that. I *honestly* hadn't thought of the full potential consequences before reading some of the follow-up, the link I shared was for a genuine reason as I've stated, to close down the spat that Otium was having with BDG...given I don't think Otium understands what his legal position he was trying to suggest with BDG is (I did actually flag up that BDG would instantly get any action dismissed with the 'honest opinion' statutory defence, given Otiums posting history). Some of the lunatics out there who reacted reminded me there are lunatics out there, and it wasn't fair to potentially expose BDG to them, even though the info was a 5 second click away given his real name is in his sig and he's published links to Gag N Bone Man stuff - so any actual lunatics don't need me to do their searching for them. Given less than 20 people had actually seen my post, I figured it'd be reet - although its a shame a couple of people kept quoting it to extend the time it was available. Thankfully El Mel followed up with the tidying up. But - none of that is relevant, as BDG posted (gone now?), there was a request to draw a line under things, and I for one have no intention of fanning any flames or antagonising things more than I inadvertently did do! Similarly, I don't see it as an us and them, I'll continue to post here following the rules (as I always have done, I've never received a yellow card), just as I'll continue to post at the other place whilst it remains interesting (and hopefully both places will start to pick up once the football is underway), along with a couple of other places I go for my Town gossip. So, in short. Yes 🤷♂️ Just my take but I’d always say an apology is something of note. The original action shouldn’t have happened but you’re man enough to admit that. Hopefully BDG can accept the stance you regret it also. I think it was made worse by the flames being fanned afterwards too. I'll accept an apology when one is actually made. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2021 9:43:11 GMT 1
Just my take but I’d always say an apology is something of note. The original action shouldn’t have happened but you’re man enough to admit that. Hopefully BDG can accept the stance you regret it also. I think it was made worse by the flames being fanned afterwards too. I'll accept an apology when one is actually made. In that case I apologise, publicly* and unreservedly, for any distress I may have caused you. No caveats, no excuses. I hadn't sent anything as was hoping things would blow over...but there's a few that seem to want to continue forever with 'the last word' despite your request for line drawing etc.(not just on what I did, but all the other stuff of the last week or so) *As opposed to my previous PM apology, last time I did something regrettable that targeted you (its honestly not personal - just poor judgement when slightly drunk on my part) |
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Post by Gag N Bone Man on Jul 29, 2021 10:00:26 GMT 1
I'll accept an apology when one is actually made. In that case I apologise, publicly* and unreservedly, for any distress I may have caused you. No caveats, no excuses. I hadn't sent anything as was hoping things would blow over...but there's a few that seem to want to continue forever with 'the last word' despite your request for line drawing etc.(not just on what I did, but all the other stuff of the last week or so) *As opposed to my previous PM apology, last time I did something regrettable that targeted you (its honestly not personal - just poor judgement when slightly drunk on my part) Apology accepted. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2021 11:42:47 GMT 1
I love people apologising and I love it when apologies are accepted.
I think that wingman deserves the 2021 Kofi Annan Award for services beyond the call of duty for the future of DATM.
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Post by Wingman on Jul 29, 2021 13:50:00 GMT 1
I love people apologising and I love it when apologies are accepted. I think that wingman deserves the 2021 Kofi Annan Award for services beyond the call of duty for the future of DATM. 😄 very kind @shortdistancewalker. I just hope when I plant my foot in my mouth someone is there to drag me back into line too 😂. |
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Post by tvor on Jul 30, 2021 15:13:20 GMT 1
Ooh. Am I invited to join the new one this time? Don’t forget to let me know what time and day we are synchronising the deletion of our DATM accounts. Wouldn’t want anyone to miss it. Just sign up mate, no invite needed. Thanks. I did check in briefly and it looks there’s been a bit more censorship from the sole admin. Not everyone’s playing by the non-existent rules by the looks of things. Always a shame when that happens. |
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Post by Chips Longhorn on Jul 30, 2021 15:24:17 GMT 1
Just sign up mate, no invite needed. Thanks. I did check in briefly and it looks there’s been a bit more censorship from the sole admin. Not everyone’s playing by the non-existent rules by the looks of things. Always a shame when that happens. "There are no rules " "I've had to move two threads today " (delete ) 'To be clear, if there's any considerable doubt over the integrity of a thread, it will be removed" This is the best thing on the internat at the moment |
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Post by Niggled on Jul 30, 2021 15:27:51 GMT 1
To someone who isn't bothered you seem to spend your time looking at it . Get a life lad
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Post by El Mel on Jul 30, 2021 15:35:01 GMT 1
How come you two or more bothered about how I run another forum, than you are over how the admins run this one.
Strange behaviour lads.
You should come over and say hello.
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Post by Chips Longhorn on Jul 30, 2021 15:35:01 GMT 1
To someone who isn't bothered you seem to spend your time looking at it . Get a life lad Who says I'm not bothered? I love it Youre spending time looking at this . Get a life |
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Post by Chips Longhorn on Jul 30, 2021 15:37:08 GMT 1
How come you two or more bothered about how I run another forum, than you are over how the admins run this one. Strange behaviour lads. You should come over and say hello. I'm not bothered . I'm loving It. You have been very vocal about the administration of this board so I'm sure you would encourage comment about your administration of the other ? |
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Post by El Mel on Jul 30, 2021 15:47:19 GMT 1
How come you two or more bothered about how I run another forum, than you are over how the admins run this one. Strange behaviour lads. You should come over and say hello. I'm not bothered . I'm loving It. You have been very vocal about the administration of this board so I'm sure you would encourage comment about your administration of the other ? Mate, you can say what you want, where you want, along with Tvor. But you both look a bit obsessed about something you are only spectating on. |
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Post by Chips Longhorn on Jul 30, 2021 16:12:28 GMT 1
I'm not bothered . I'm loving It. You have been very vocal about the administration of this board so I'm sure you would encourage comment about your administration of the other ? Mate, you can say what you want, where you want, along with Tvor. But you both look a bit obsessed about something you are only spectating on. You call it obsessed.. feels to me like youre mixing your words up .. much like "move" and "delete " .given that you are the admin of one board who makes constant comment about the administration of another . And given that board has tens if not hundreds of posts commenting about this board, including by you , then I find your "obsessed" comment quite strange.. as I say I love your board.. its funnier than rate my takeaway . Keep going |
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Post by tvor on Jul 30, 2021 16:37:58 GMT 1
I'm not bothered . I'm loving It. You have been very vocal about the administration of this board so I'm sure you would encourage comment about your administration of the other ? Mate, you can say what you want, where you want, along with Tvor. But you both look a bit obsessed about something you are only spectating on. You invited me to join so it’s obvious I’m going to have a look to see what’s happening but I’m only responding to the things where you quote me anyway. On this board, where I’m a member. That’s how forums work isn’t it? Expecting us to join YOUR board seems self-indulgent and calling us obsessed just seems like a massive deflection. 🤷♂️ |
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Post by Teddington Ted on Jul 30, 2021 18:12:05 GMT 1
It’s somewhere between being Change UK, GB News, 80’s new Coke, Gretna Green FC, my boxing career and the ISIS Caliphate.
Visionary in concept, poorly established,shambolically run and hilarious in downfall.
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Post by Gag N Bone Man on Jul 30, 2021 18:17:53 GMT 1
It’s somewhere between being Change UK, GB News, 80’s new Coke, Gretna Green FC, my boxing career and the ISIS Caliphate. Visionary in concept, poorly established,shambolically run and hilarious in downfall. That's a bit harsh. |
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Post by Teddington Ted on Jul 30, 2021 18:22:19 GMT 1
It’s somewhere between being Change UK, GB News, 80’s new Coke, Gretna Green FC, my boxing career and the ISIS Caliphate. Visionary in concept, poorly established,shambolically run and hilarious in downfall. That's a bit harsh. You never saw me box. |
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Post by digs on Jul 30, 2021 19:03:02 GMT 1
I can see DATM erupting again
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Post by El Mel on Jul 30, 2021 19:14:04 GMT 1
It’s somewhere between being Change UK, GB News, 80’s new Coke, Gretna Green FC, my boxing career and the ISIS Caliphate. Visionary in concept, poorly established,shambolically run and hilarious in downfall. You talking about the forum or your sexual prowess t'other Ted? |
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Post by digs on Jul 30, 2021 19:15:11 GMT 1
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Post by Teddington Ted on Jul 30, 2021 19:15:45 GMT 1
I can see DATM erupting again Really? Everyone is getting on fine. The Tom Lees rumour has focused all our minds on what really matters: having a pop at the club and a player we have yet to see play. Sell LOB to Leeds and most will be ecstatic to revel in faux outrage. Lose to Wednesday and it will be like Xmas for the doom-mongers. |
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Post by Teddington Ted on Jul 30, 2021 19:17:16 GMT 1
It’s somewhere between being Change UK, GB News, 80’s new Coke, Gretna Green FC, my boxing career and the ISIS Caliphate. Visionary in concept, poorly established,shambolically run and hilarious in downfall. You talking about the forum or your sexual prowess t'other Ted? I’d never joke about something as bereft as that ☹️ |
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Post by digs on Jul 30, 2021 19:34:22 GMT 1
I can see DATM erupting again Really? Everyone is getting on fine. The Tom Lees rumour has focused all our minds on what really matters: having a pop at the club and a player we have yet to see play. Sell LOB to Leeds and most will be ecstatic to revel in faux outrage. Lose to Wednesday and it will be like Xmas for the doom-mongers. Oh good,does that mean you wont feel the need to spy on the other forum and report back here, or are you getting your shit stirring spoon out again? |
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Post by Teddington Ted on Jul 30, 2021 19:41:38 GMT 1
Really? Everyone is getting on fine. The Tom Lees rumour has focused all our minds on what really matters: having a pop at the club and a player we have yet to see play. Sell LOB to Leeds and most will be ecstatic to revel in faux outrage. Lose to Wednesday and it will be like Xmas for the doom-mongers. Oh good,does that mean you wont feel the need to spy on the other forum and report back here, or are you getting your shit stirring spoon out again? If you ever return it I can’t promise I won’t get it out again. |
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Post by digs on Jul 30, 2021 19:44:11 GMT 1
Oh good,does that mean you wont feel the need to spy on the other forum and report back here, or are you getting your shit stirring spoon out again? If you ever return it I can’t promise I won’t get it out again. you will find I'm not bad mouthing either forum, |
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Post by Town1971 on Jul 30, 2021 19:44:29 GMT 1
Really? Everyone is getting on fine. The Tom Lees rumour has focused all our minds on what really matters: having a pop at the club and a player we have yet to see play. Sell LOB to Leeds and most will be ecstatic to revel in faux outrage. Lose to Wednesday and it will be like Xmas for the doom-mongers. Oh good,does that mean you wont feel the need to spy on the other forum and report back here, or are you getting your shit stirring spoon out again? This two forum battle is just plain. daft and purile. |
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Post by digs on Jul 30, 2021 19:47:05 GMT 1
Oh good,does that mean you wont feel the need to spy on the other forum and report back here, or are you getting your shit stirring spoon out again? This two forum battle is just plain. daft and purile. Tell Teddy bear to stop telling tales then |
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