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Post by 1876tom on Sept 26, 2014 14:58:04 GMT 1
Just picked up on this. So very sad. Keep strong Ben, time is a good healer. R.I.P James.xx
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Post by Deleted on Sept 26, 2014 17:28:27 GMT 1
I want to thank everyone yet again for their amazing support, It has been overwhelming. I am looking forward to a day out tomorrow and intend to do my beautiful baby son James proud. Thanks, Ben.
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Post by dxterrier on Sept 26, 2014 19:44:15 GMT 1
Ben, as im sure its been said by many, I have never met you but I would like to add my most sincere condolancies to you and your family, pretty sure you will never get over this but I pray for the day you find peace enough to live with it, please be strong for each other, reading through the thread it seems you have a lot of friends who know you but I think I speak for everyone when I say you have friends who dont know you too, and any of us are here for you RIP James
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Post by Syran on Sept 26, 2014 20:20:12 GMT 1
So sorry to read this Ben.
Tragic news.
Unfortunately, I've seen this first hand as a friend of a friends missus' little lad died during birth.
Here I am moaning about HTAFC and a fellow town fan is going through unimaginable pain.
Hope you and your wife/girlfriend look after each other and get through this sad time.
Rip little James.
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Post by tinyterrier on Sept 26, 2014 21:06:58 GMT 1
So sorry to hear this sad news Ben. I can't imagine your pain at the horrible loss, I've never met you before but at times like this that is insignificant. I am sure you and the rest of this great football family will do James proud tomorrow. Unfortunately, can't make it but will be thinking of you at a difficult time.
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Post by otium (EPBS) on Sept 26, 2014 21:16:36 GMT 1
My heartlfelt condolences to the whole family.
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Post by jimmymac on Sept 26, 2014 21:58:01 GMT 1
This thread should not be happening life,s so f, g cruel to some people......its really got to me this.......
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Post by Doc Halladay 32 on Sept 26, 2014 22:29:13 GMT 1
Truly terrible news Ben.
RIP James
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Post by keysersoze on Sept 27, 2014 2:03:22 GMT 1
RIP Baby James
Thoughts are with you and your family at this tragic time.
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Post by captainblack on Sept 27, 2014 6:05:38 GMT 1
Just read the thread and found it very upsetting I wish you and all the family my heart felt condolences .
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Post by 5kippy on Sept 27, 2014 8:42:59 GMT 1
RIP Baby James.
So sorry to hear about this Ben.
I know I have only met you the once (so far), but from what I have seen you are a very positive person and if anybody can come through this situation I know you will.
Deepest condolences to you your partner and your families.
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Post by swollentoe on Sept 27, 2014 14:14:49 GMT 1
thoughts are with you and your family Ben. RIP James x For brief and fleeting moment, an angel touched the ground; With tiny wings and halo, and sweet, soft angel sounds. Blessing the lives of others, in beauty and in grace; Those who saw the angel, knew God had kissed his tiny face. The angel came for reasons we may not understand; A journey brief, with gifts so great, and guided by God's hand. So, rest now tiny angel, your work on earth is through; In the beauty of God's perfect love we saw His gift in you. I thought you were very brave in canalside today Ben Keep going pal it will get easier for you
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Post by Jiffrtd on Sept 27, 2014 17:19:53 GMT 1
God bless you. RIP little man.
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Post by htfcterry on Sept 27, 2014 17:22:13 GMT 1
Fantastic bit of support at half time. Don't know Ben but my biggest condolences to him and his family.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 27, 2014 17:47:15 GMT 1
The reception at half-time was fantastic. Wish you and your wife all the best in such a difficult time.
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Post by galpharm2400 on Sept 27, 2014 18:07:26 GMT 1
glad that you attended today Ben.
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Post by shatterrier on Sept 27, 2014 18:14:11 GMT 1
Fantastic bit of support at half time. Don't know Ben but my biggest condolences to him and his family. Their reputation would suggest it unlikely but even the Millwall fans seemed to join in with the support at half time. Ben can't begin to imagine your pain, heartfelt condolences to you and your family. R.I.P little James
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Post by Deleted on Sept 27, 2014 18:15:37 GMT 1
Just read this thread. So so sad. Filing up here.
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Post by dewsburyterrier on Sept 27, 2014 18:17:01 GMT 1
Condolences to Ben and his family. Cannot believe how cruel life can be. R.I.P. Baby James
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Post by midge on Sept 27, 2014 18:41:10 GMT 1
Thought the tribute paid at half time was very poignant!!!
Life is very cruel.
RIP James and condolences to you both!!!
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Post by Deleted on Sept 27, 2014 19:16:41 GMT 1
thoughts are with you and your family Ben. RIP James x For brief and fleeting moment, an angel touched the ground; With tiny wings and halo, and sweet, soft angel sounds. Blessing the lives of others, in beauty and in grace; Those who saw the angel, knew God had kissed his tiny face. The angel came for reasons we may not understand; A journey brief, with gifts so great, and guided by God's hand. So, rest now tiny angel, your work on earth is through; In the beauty of God's perfect love we saw His gift in you. I thought you were very brave in canalside today Ben Keep going pal it will get easier for you Thanks mate. I was glad I came today to. I want to thank the whole of the HTFC family for the support today, canalside and at half time. A massive thank you to Paul 'Rambo' Ramsden as well for his words. Means a lot and helps massively, I now know what support is. If James' name can be remembered and a bit of awareness can be achieved for the baby intensive care ward at LGI then I'll be happy. Thanks again, Ben.
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Post by htfc63 on Sept 27, 2014 19:24:03 GMT 1
Like others I have not met you however I was in canalside today and it was clear to see how emotional people had become at the news of your sad loss. You, your wife Amanda and your family are in my thoughts and you only have to look here on this thread to see James short life has been recognised amongst your fellow town fans. God bless you all and especially the new angel he has in his care.
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Post by seaneyboy123 on Sept 27, 2014 19:30:22 GMT 1
Like everyone else, I was really upset to hear your news. I had a friend who went through a similar situation. Everyone is different in how they handle this but be strong for each other and remember although short the happiness he brought you.
To every other town fan show him your support if he needs a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk to be there.
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Post by yorksrose1 on Sept 27, 2014 19:32:52 GMT 1
This is my first and will probably be my only post on here, as usually an occasional observer, but my heart goes out to you and your wife. Although words aren't really enough you have my sincere condolences. RIP little one.
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Post by ShortbreadPete on Sept 27, 2014 19:39:49 GMT 1
How brave of you to come today Ben and what a tribute for you, your wife and James. Town fans are amazing people. R.I.P. little Town fan - today the team played and won for you.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 27, 2014 19:40:23 GMT 1
We won today for baby James Ian Greaves,Ben and Amanda.
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Post by town2014 on Sept 27, 2014 20:22:46 GMT 1
What an awful thing to happen. My absolute condolences are with your whole family
R.I.P little fella
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Post by Walton-on-the-Hill Terrier on Sept 27, 2014 20:39:04 GMT 1
I hope Ben had a thoroughly enjoyable afternoon and that Town's win goes just a little way to making him feel better. Well done Town and chin up Ben.
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Post by hebdenblue on Sept 27, 2014 20:39:19 GMT 1
From here to eternity every season lets make the last home fixture in the month of September a celebration/Memorial Day of kinds for James. Lest we forget and let it be a constant reminder of what really is important in life - each other - and not whoever our current no.9 is.
All of us at some point will go through loss but events like Bens are just horrendous to comprehend.
#NSL day.........North Stand Loves....
God bless
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Post by yorkterrier on Sept 27, 2014 20:41:58 GMT 1
Rest in peace little man James.
Thoughts are with you and your family mate.
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